the storyline of a bad girl who, after years of loving bad men, finally marries a good dude but very quickly finds him incredibly dull and not enough

fuck your threadcount pillows and matching bedset
fuck your sweet and thoughtful gifts
i want something real
something that will hurt me and will keep me engaged

we only want love if it's hard-won from an emotionally unavailable partner

and, transitively,

if we give too much of ourselves then our people will become bored of us